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Treasure or Trash? No… A Human Being
Posted by Administrator in Justice, Missing Persons, Violent Crime on September 30, 2011
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Ladyjustice is often fascinated by the unique finds on shows such as PBS’ Antique Roadshow and the like. There is something special when an unusual item is closely linked to history. If only such respect was paid to persons who go missing and ultimately murdered as they do to their precious potential antiques!
It occurred to LJ while listening to the case of Danielle Hill Alvarado on a radio episode of Crimewire recently, that there have been far too many cases in which a person died and was literally discarded as garbage- that tragic ultimate resting place was a dumpster and/or landfill. This blogger is compelled to “shine a light” on such cases, in hopes that in some small way, others may have answers to those currently unsolved cases. These sociopaths think nothing of others… They are skilled at “playing the game of life” without really participating. Their true talents lie in masquerade.
The Case of Danielle Hill Alvarado:
Danielle, age 21, came from a small town (15 miles south of the Texas/Oklahoma border). She lived a small town life and was married to Jonathan Alvarado with a 5 year old daughter, Nicki. Danielle went missing on January 24, 2010. It appears this man was an abuser from the get go and had a “history behind closed doors.” (i.e. Danielle’s statements like “It will be far worse punishment if I disobey/ don’t do X.”) In addition, Jonathan had a history of drug abuse was a serial intimate partner abuser and was arrested for aggravated assault two months prior to Danielle’s disappearance. As told on Crimewiresire.org, Belinda’s mother is currently the guardian for her granddaughter. Belinda learned from her son-in-law’s employer -property owner that Danielle was choked to death, dumped and ultimately put in a city landfill bordering the two states!
Power and control was the status quo with Jonathan. What harm would come to the relationship for Danielle to attend church and a baby shower with family members? Absolutely none… However, this is the “big event” that sent Jonathan over the edge? Danielle’s family reportedly pleaded with her not to return home after the shower. But, as they so often do, Danielle may have had a false sense of: She’d rather tolerate a “lesser beating for disobedience rather than a severe beating later…” Such a sad story…
The rest of the story to date is that Jonathan’s “employer-protector” seems to have divulged the vile truth to Belinda, like “dropping a bomb” and thinking nothing of it as he was her handyman and “such a nice guy!” As Susan Murphy Milano so aptly pointed out, this woman was aiding and abetting a criminal. Where is her conscience? Where is her sense of right and wrong? What circumstances would ever justify a man disposing of a woman like a Kleenex tissue? ‘Disobedience over going to church and a baby shower? This was her husband…not a military officer.
Jonathan also made 22 cell phone calls during the baby shower and then nothing. Jonathan’s mother lied about Danielle’s whereabouts. Immediately after her disappearance, Jonathan and his father used borrowed funds and left for Florida although there was no reason for their destination. Police and parole officers were less than zealous about Jonathan’s unlawful exit. Danielle was branded as a “street person”, based on the behaviors of Jonathan alone, and the police did not speak to Belinda or investigate in any meaningful way.
Good riddance to bad rubbish …wherever you are Jonathan Alvarado! Let’s bring Danielle home.
A YouTube tribute video can be viewed at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5j3KO0_N1YY. For further details on this story, please go to the Crimewire link at: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/crimewire/2011/09/14/crime-wire-investigates-tuesdays-900-pm-eastern-time.
The Mysterious Case of John Wheeler:
According to CNN News sources and Daniel Bates, a British reporter for www.dailymail.co.uk, the bizarre case of Washington government official, John Wheeler was shrouded in mystery and unanswered questions prior to his untimely death on December 31, 2010.
This 66 year old man, resident of Wilmington, Delaware, served under three Presidential Administrations including Reagan and George W. Bush. Wheeler is credited with being the impetus behind the approval and funding for the Vietnam War Memorial. At 3:30 p.m. on New Year’s Eve, a garbage truck released his body from a truck at the Cherry Island landfill in Delaware. Prior to the discovery of his body, the facts as reported are:
- Forty-eight hours before his body was located, John Wheeler was wandering around a parking lot looking for a car and appearing disoriented, coatless and with one shoe in the freezing weather adjacent to the New Castle County Courthouse;
- The parking lot attendant noted that he was disoriented. When asked about his welfare, but she failed to report his unusual behavior in a timely manner;
- The next morning Wheeler was observed walking in downtown Wilmington;
- No evidence was located during searches of his home in Wilmington and Manhattan apartment. Although the floor boards were removed, it “wasn’t considered it a crime scene;”
- Background checks revealed that Wheeler’s current wife had a wealthy sister-socialite, Emily Klyce Fisher who was stabbed to death in her home in 1995. It is questionable whether this murder was ever solved;
- The most promising lead as of January 2011, was that John Wheeler and a neighbor were having an ongoing argument concerning the neighbor building a house on an adjacent property. Evidently, a legal battle ensued as the addition would have restricted Wheeler’s view and Wheeler’s claim that the house was “too big for the area.” In fact, police confirmed that a smoke bomb was placed under the neighbor’s house a week before John’s murder;
- Police refused to comment on the manner of death but later reports indicated it was blunt force trauma;
- Another possible motive was speculated by a blogger concerning Wheeler’s views on biological warfare. Sources at the Washington Post revealed that Wheeler wrote a manual on the effectiveness [LJ- Or lack of effectiveness] of biological and chemical weapons. Supposedly, Wheeler was against the use of such warfare. [LJ- Could he have been in the midst of blowing the whistle re pesticides? Were there classified documents in his briefcase that others wanted?]
- Still another speculative theory is that Wheeler had a form of dementia [LJ- Sudden onset disorientation would be more representative of a head injury, brain tumors, hematoma (clotted blood due to a break in a blood vessel, encephalopathy(lesions in the brain sometimes caused by prolonged alcohol abuse) and not a dementia which is typically a more gradual onset of symptoms;
Status of the Wheeler Case as of September 2011:
New information is limited… However more is known about the
Timeline:
- Two days prior to his murder, Newark police learned that Wheeler walked into a pharmacy in which he was a customer and “asked for a ride,” The pharmacist offered to call him a cab. Wheeler declined the offer;
- The parking lot attendant was assured by Wheeler that “I’m not drunk.” “I’m not drunk” despite his disorientation and unkempt look, lack of a coat in 30 degree weather;
- Wheeler told Imen Goldsborough, the attendant that his briefcase had been stolen;
- Wheeler was seen the next day on December 30th in another office building in downtown Wilmington via security cameras as late as 8:30 p.m.;
- During the afternoon between 2:30 and 3;30 p.m. John came in contact with several people who offered to help, but he declined;
- Wheeler was reported to be wearing similar clothes as the previous day as well as a sweatshirt;
- Police and the FBI are searching for the crime scene and the missing briefcase which could provide a link to the murder;
- The dispute with the neighbor is only “one facet of the investigation.” Wheeler’s attorney said “it was not contentious, but within normal bounds;
- Wheeler’s biographical history includes being the first Chairman of “Mothers Against Drunk Driving.”
Was this an organized crime killing? Denny Griffin, we need your expertise!
The Tragic Case of Lori Hacking:
Many readers may be familiar with this shocking case, as it appears to have occurred around the same time as the Chandra Levy, the Washington D.C. aide slain while jogging…
As per an article by Rebecca Leung who interviewed Maureen Maher, a CBS, 48 Hours Correspondent in February, 2009. Mark Hacking was a “goofy looking dude,” who got lucky and attracted a cute woman… Lori Hacking referred to Mark as “my big old teddy bear.” ‘Trouble is… his actions were those of a pathological liar who weaved a pack of lies more intricate and lengthy than anyone could have imagined!
[LJ- I’ll bet Sandra L. Brown of the Institute for Relational Harm Reduction and Public Pathology Education would have a thing or two to say about this guy…http://saferelationshipsmagazine.com.]
Lori and Mark lived in Salt Lake City Utah and had plans to move to North Carolina where Mark intended to begin medical school. It appears that while Mark “charmed his way entertaining children at a psychiatric hospital…and bamboozled his wife and in-laws for five years, he was no closer to enrolling in medical school than a kindergartener! His elaborate ruse included “pretending to be psychotic-walking around naked, but with shoes on.” He also pretended to take a trip to Manhattan to interview at Columbia University-ultimately staying with a cousin. In fact, he never graduated college. He stopped attending classes after three years.
Mark’s deceptions were revealed when his mother called the Hacking’s answering machine, asking why he wasn’t on the enrollment list at the North Carolina medical school. (Mom being Mom, had attempted to pay his tuition.)
Lori learned the news, confronted “the teddy bear,” they argued, he took off to a hotel. The next day… so the story goes, Lori told friends she and Mark “reconciled things and made up.” (At this point, Lori was five weeks pregnant with their first child.) Hacking went through the motions (Similar to Scott Peterson) reporting his wife missing and lying about the circumstances. Hacking claimed Lori went jogging and never returned. Next, he made his public thank yous for search efforts and actually went mattress shopping when he was supposed to be searching. Mark allegedly confessed that he killed Lori while she slept in bed and then… “put her in the trash” where her body (and soiled mattress) was found under more than 2,000 tons of garbage.
Douglas Hacking, Mark’s father stated that Mark confessed he felt pressure to achieve, as his brothers were high achievers… and when he “couldn’t make the grade” and knew he would disappoint his family, he began lying and subsequently eliminated his wife and child.
The Ultimate Irony: Paul Soares, Lori’s brother, related that Lori would have continued to love Mark anyway as long as he was trying his best.
[LJ-He tried his best at the wrong thing, the most dastardly thing on earth. Mark Hacking put his wife and unborn child in the earth. He played God when no one has such a right!]
Little Somer Thompson:
Nearly two years ago, on or about October 22, 2009, Somer Thompson from Orange Park Florida went missing on her way home from school. She was seven years old and a twin who assumed it was safe to walk home from school. Sheriff Rick Bessler reported that he had to report the tragic news that her body was discovered in a landfill. This was a first time crime for the small town of Orange Park.
According to a Camembert County publication as of October 22, 2009, police, “rounded up known sex offenders and garbage pickers,” but initially had no prime suspect. Investigators were trying to determine the time of death before or after the disposal of her body.
Update as of March 26, 2010: Twenty four year old John Harrell was charged with the kidnapping and murder of Somer Thompson after long delays in the processing of forensic computer analysis with a “no rush status” by Clay County Florida investigators, which finally resulted in 55 counts of child pornography. As told by Dr. Clint Van Zandt, former FBI profiler and founder of www.livesecure.org, Harrell maintained a “secret stockpile” of child porn labeled, “Don’t lose music.” This stash was discovered by his former roommates. Evidently Harrell had been ousted from his apartment after they suspected that he had stolen an I-Pod. [LJ thinks Harrell wasn’t the smartest of criminals as he left behind his computer and many incriminating CDs. No doubt he was thrown out with little time to prepare. Luckily, the 20 something roommates had a collective conscience and turned over the evidence to police two months prior to Somer’s murder.]
The Likelihood of the Crime: Pattern of Conduct & Jarred Harrell’s Culpability:
Dr. Van Zandt provides the likely scenario-factors that contributed to young Somer’s death.
- Somer wasn’t merely snatched away from her group of friends. She argued with her friend, ran ahead of the group and was kidnapped after her separation;
- Previous history of child pornography viewing as evidenced by his computer files;
- Apprehension in Meridian Mississippi and arrest for child molestation and child pornography;
- History of suspected theft;
- Harrell’s former residence on Gano Avenue was located near a school and near Somer Thompson’s Orange Park home. [LJ- Where were the police and Federal officials requiring Harrell to register as a sex offender? Nowhere… because the evidence wasn’t processed soon enough, nor did an arrest occur until November prior to Somer’s murder in order to save her life! Timing and opportunity is everything -especially concerning sexual predators and murderers!]
- As Harrell lived en route to an elementary school, he had access to groups of children and the opportunity to observe them daily. He also no doubt observed them in the neighborhood playing.
- Harrell may have seized the moment as Somer ran ahead from the group and easily overpowered her without being seen;
- Harrell was in the construction trade, assisted in building a restaurant and offered to be a cook. [LJ- This makes him a “hanger-on” in my opinion, an opportunist who “changes with the wind.”]
- Ladyjustice speculates that as a cook, Harrell would have easy access to a commercial dumpster, whose dumpsite would have been the Georgia landfill reported to be 60 miles from where Somer was kidnapped;
Somer’s mother, Diena Thompson reported on March 29, 2010, that Jarred Harrell is…“A monster. That’s all this person is,” at “Somer Jam,” a fundraising concert she organized in Jacksonville to benefit the Somer Thompson Foundation. “I’d like to take this opportunity to say, ‘Jarred Harrell, we got you, and you ain’t gettin away.”
He is now in prison facing his 50 sexual abuse charges, child pornography and creation charges, and now kidnapping, assault of a minor and first degree murder in the death of Somer Thompson.
Please view the moving YouTube video of Diena’s comments: http://pysih.com/2010/03/29/jared-mitchell-harrell/
The Case of Marta Jimenez:
Marta was a 44 year old hard working convenience store clerk in East Montgomery County, Conroe Texas.
As of April 20, 2011 her husband, Luis Hernandez Jimenez argued with his wife during the previous weekend. Accounts from www.khou.com and www.yourhoustonnews.com reported that Luis worked for the local landfill near Cleveland for the past for years. [LJ- ‘How convenient!]. Marta’s 18 year old daughter reported her missing the day after she did not return home from work.
Police found “irrefutable evidence” that Marta was killed. Eight Texas Equusearch cadaver dogs were used in addition to a very organized and methodical trash distribution and grid search system. Police were given false information that Marta had gone to Mexico with a friend. Luis Jimenez was charged with tampering with evidence and submitting false statements and was being held in the Montgomery County jail pending further charges.
In the end, can we say that John Wheeler and Marta Jimenez or Lori Hacking, Danielle Alverado and little Somer Thompson had anything in common in life?
It doesn’t appear so… They all lived separate and distinct lives. However, it is in death and their manner of death that they share much in common. They were people, not trash! I’ll bet they are best friends in heaven now. Let us never forget them!
Respectfully told,
Ladyjustice
Listen Up, Because…. Time’s Up!
Posted by Administrator in Victimization on June 29, 2011

How the “Smart Woman” Got Caught Up in the Drama of a Drug Addict
This is a true story… and a somewhat embarrassing story. However, if in the telling, this story enlightens other “smart people,” than so be it….
[“And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk more” Erika Jong]
Ladyjustice has always considered herself a knowledgeable person – book smart, analytical, problem solving and possessing enough “street smarts” to know better… But alas, this was one of the hardest lessons of all – to be played like a fiddle by a master manipulator and not even realize it! LJ was no match for this person, henceforth to be called “Madam X.” Madam X had a pattern of leading unsuspecting people on a journey to hell and back.
Ladyjustice should have known better…
Little did she know at the outset that she would not only be a crime victim again, but also demonstrate an ability to rise above the pain, and abuse to save the perpetrator’s life…. whatever that was worth.
It all began when this blogger hosted a Woman’s Sunday Brunch gathering within a major hotel in an elite community in central Connecticut. One Sunday, a new guest, “Madam X” arrived. She was small in stature, was well scrubbed, freckle faced and appeared “too cute” in looks and personality for words. In fact, unbeknownst to LJ, she not only strolled in, but rode in on her motorcycle. (Motorcycles are hardly foreign objects to this blogger. Please refer to past blog- After 30 Years….. (Anniversary Tribute to Don Gore (8-26-1933–4-17-1981)
Madam X was charming and cast her spell toward LJ even during the first meeting. It was almost like a dream… PI’s Denny Griffin or Vito Colucci should have rounded the corner, taken this blogger by the shoulders and said, “Wake up woman, this person is bad news!” But they were nowhere to be found!
Madam X and LJ became friends, but there was something not quite right about the situation. This blogger had met others in the past that were in a tough spot, living on the edge for awhile until finances improved. But LJ should have known that the transient little barn converted apartment was for the wayward and not a “charming fixer-upper.”
Madam X was down on her luck. She had a job but lived paycheck to paycheck. She was a licensed handyperson, but was working in a hotel catering department. Madam X was a good cook, skilled at arts and crafts, and voiced goals and aspirations.
One day while sitting on the couch of her ramshackle apartment, after finishing a call to someone, she warned LJ, “You don’t want to know about my problems,” when an innocent offer of help was made. LJ had just rescued her stranded with her bike, needing a ride. (LJ should have walked out the door right then and there.)
This blogger was oblivious, blinded that “something was not quite right.” This cute and perky person fed into LJ’s caretaking nature…and Madam X knew it…
Madam X needed a temporary place to stay … so Ladyjustice oblige
d, thinking that it was the right thing to do to help a new friend…. And that our friendship would grow as a result.
Madam X moved in with her considerable amount of belongings, taking over LJ’s “neat nick condominium” and rearranged her life as never before.
Background
Madam X came from a neighboring state, had two sisters. Both were successful professionals in other geographic areas. Madam X portrayed herself as “the black sheep of the family,” always trying to prove herself, always misunderstood. If memory serves, her mother was a widow, but dating.
What Ladyjustice wasn’t aware of initially, was that Madam X had burned many bridges, including her family. It appeared they were in a state of inertia when LJ desperately called them upon Madam’s first disappearance.(i.e. not in total denial of her problems and former rescues, but not helping her to face the music and suffer the consequences for, such things as losing her driver’s license….. and unbeknownst to this blogger, a drug problem.)
And so… having a new housemate, Ladyjustice, “Savior of the People” drove Madam X to her hotel job, frequently rising at 4 am to arrive at 6 am located over the hazardous Avon Mountain.
Fortuitously, rather than be the constant chauffer, Ladyjustice decided to put her on her auto insurance as a motorcycle was not always the best means of travel. Let me say fortuitously again, as one fine day, she borrowed LJ’s Subaru Forrester, fell asleep at the wheel, landed in a ditch and totaled the car, with only a few scratches to her body.
As time went on, the naiveté on LJ’s part remained and so did the loans of a few dollars here and there (which were accumulating). The good thing is that all expenditures were logged in a book as proof of what was owed (she told herself). Madam X liked a glass of wine with dinner…every night as it turned out.. which didn’t seem terribly out of place at first? LJ even sacrificed Thanksgiving dinner with her family in favor of a twosome, much to her family’s chagrin.
This blogger wasn’t thrilled with the situation, but kept the thought that the inconveniences were only temporary as soon as she got a better paying job. The inconveniences mounted and the psychological control and lies began, such that LJ wanted out of the situation altogether. But Ladyjustice knew Madam X would not go easily. She was a “hanger on” whose job it was to charm the world. ‘Never afraid physically, but LJ was in a constant state of worry, tired of being manipulated by charm and tired of beating up oneself for the stupidity of being duped.
By this time, thanks to the insurance company, a new 2003 midnight blue Toyota Matrix was on the premises. But… there was more to come…
One night, while Ladyjustice slept, Madam X got up, “borrowed” LJ’s car keys and stole the new car! The next morning, the car and Madam X were nowhere to be found. (Drug addicts are good at disappearing and re-appearing.)
Ladyjustice had to go to work…but was too ashamed and embarrassed to tell her family members. She tried unsuccessfully to arrange for continuous rides from co-workers. In the meantime, LJ did report “the newest incident” to the police immediately. Madam X had no record in the State of Connecticut. This blogger finally woke up and wanted to have her arrested! The brand new car was placed on the NCIC-National Crime Information Center’s data base for missing vehicles.
At this juncture, Ladyjustice had to “swallow her pride” and notify family members for transportation …and for support. They didn’t see Madam X’s addiction. They only knew and expressed that she was one of “those people” from the wrong side of the tracks… a user. They were truly concerned for LJ’s welfare.
It was the first time Ladyjustice had ever seen her mother threaten bodily harm…and her sister wanted to “throw all of her belongings out on the street.”
A plethora of emotions were at work in LJ’s head- anger, disgust, worry, even a little compassion for this criminal. What made her do it after all? LJ’s main emotions at the time were incredulousness and self disappointment for being so easily taken in!
CAN YOU IMAGINE HOW ANYONE WOULD SINK SO LOW AS TO STEAL THE ONLY TRANSPORTATION AVAILABLE FOR A SINGLE, PHYSICALLY DISABLED PERSON??
Ladyjustice just couldn’t get over this fact…. This blogger began to look into eviction procedures – a legal morass. LJ learned that it was no easy task to evict someone who is not “an official renter.” Days passed with no word from Madam X and no sign of the car . Perhaps two weeks came and went…
LJ discovered the “ace in the hole,” as Madam X’s motorcycle was left on the property. Sweet revenge!!! After consulting the police,, or maybe it was an attorney, Ladyjustice asked a neighbor to sell the motorcycle … and he did!
When Madam did show up, dazed and confused, she was totally dumbfounded and “betrayed” that LJ would have sold the motorcycle. No sense of responsibility was taken, just concern for the motorcycle!
Long story short, the brand new car was located unscathed (i.e. not stripped) in a high crime area of Hartford. (Coincidentally, it was exactly the location in front of the house where LJ’s mother grew up as a child!) The interior was a mess with many a McDonald’s wrapper and a couple hundred miles on the speedometer. Upon seeing it, Ladyjustice physically shook and was unable to drive it to the detailing shop.
And… Big Surprise…. Madam X stole the car in exchange for drugs.
As she told it, Madam X had a “once a month cocaine habit” in addition to an alcohol addiction.
Second Surprise… Madam X’s family turned against Ladyjustice for having her arrested. In truth, she was saving her life…
This blogger tried to “take the high road” and be supportive of Madam X’s inpatient Drug Rehabilitation, in which she was a model patient- making LJ arts and crafts projects and colored pictures. Perhaps LJ was biding her time until the court date. On the surface, temporary remorse was exhibited by Madam, such that Ladyjustice, always the compassionate one, did not see the value in sending her to jail if she could “be put on the right path.”
[A bit of trivia for readers,- Did you know that drug and alcohol counselors frequently encourage addicts to color pictures with crayons as it supposedly has a calming effect? Hah!]
The court date came and this blogger had her opportunity to list all of the despicable behaviors . Madam X said all of the right things to the judge. The judge was very surprised at LJ’s generosity “not to send her to jail, Do not pass go; Do not collect $200” as they say in Monopoly.
Drug Rehab, urine tests, probation and a halfway house were part of the plan going forward.
There was a near miss, a potential relapse during this time. The Department of Mental Health and Addiction Services policies supposedly interfered with the ability to demonstrate a clean versus a dirty test. The details escape this blogger now. However, Madam X called LJ hysterically telling her story , pushed to the brink of purchasing drugs ..and then at the last minute, flushing them down the toilet. Ladyjustice saw an injustice in the story and dutifully wrote a letter to the Medical Director.
No Surprise Again… Madam X never really expressed any remorse to Ladyjustice. She didn’t achieve the “making amends step” of the 12 step program during the time we were together. Several weeks later, Madam X, a couple of transient friends and her sister arrived with trucks to finally vacate LJ’s condominium. It was a tension filled day, but we made it through.
A few weeks later, the Medical Director of DMHAS responded to LJ’s letter on Madam’s behalf and promised to do “staff re-training concerning their policies in the future.” As a final loose end, LJ tried to do the right thing and notify Madam X of the letter and its promise. (Why I bothered, I’ll never know…)
Response to the message left at the halfway house – A call from the local police warning LJ not to harass Madam X!! Ladyjustice went to Alanon Meetings and tried to forget….
Moral of This Story- 
Had Ladyjustice not bothered in the first place with the “Master Manipulator”, the entire sordid tale would not have happened. If Ladyjustice had not demonstrated the courage to have Madam X arrested, she would not have had the benefit of drug rehabilitation and the court system “trying to set her straight.” Lady Justice would have retained the first car and all of the money owed, never to be seen again.
In other words, even with all of Madam X’s mess-ups and devaluing of other humans, Ladyjustice saved her life…even if it was against her will… and felt good about that one and only fact! (But for the Grace of God finding her in some alley…)
This blogger owns the same “drug car” today. It currently has 131,526 miles on the speedometer. When the time comes for the bone yard, the bad memories will vanish with it. As for Madam X, who knows where she is 8 years later… Hopefully living a cleaner life!
As LJ’s boss always says, “No good deed goes unpunished.”
The Legacy of The Petit Family Foundation
Posted by Administrator in Advocacy, Judicial System, Justice, Survivors of Homicide, Victimization, Violent Crime on June 19, 2011

(“Three Angels” Petit Family Memorial Garden)
Some enchanted evening; you may see a stranger,
across a crowded room; and somehow you know, you know even then,
That somewhere you’ll see him, again and again…..
Who can explain it? Who can tell you why?
Fools give you reasons, Wise men never try….
(Lyrics: “Some Enchanted Evening, Broadway Musical, South Pacific)
This blogger had the good fortune to meet and get to know a world class physician, an academic, a quiet family man who devoted his former life to his patients and “his girls”, wife Jennifer, and daughters Hayley and Michaela. The most recognized survivor of crime in the State of Connecticut, a reluctant hero, is the man known as Dr. William Petit, Jr.
Ladyjustice has hesitated to write anything about this dignified and tormented man. The media hounds him. The public is well meaning and generous through many charitable events whose proceeds go toward the Petit Family Foundation and the Foundation, in turn, sponsors many activities encompassing the three missions honoring his immediate family.
This tragedy of tragedies has effected the hearts of people throughout the U.S. and internationally.
Ladyjustice does not want to exploit nor offend in any way shape or manner by offering her humble opinion. She remains respectful and has tremendous admiration for the remaining survivors of the Petit family.
However, if a local person who occasionally crosses paths with this man, can offer a perspective as a fellow homicide survivor, and perhaps lead others to donate to his Foundation, why not?
A wise woman named Susan Murphy Milano recently told this blogger that no crime victim would ever view such efforts as exploitation, because, as survivors of crime, we are a family. Our biological families have been torn from us, helping each other and helping future victims keeps us going on the path of justice for others. So, in that spirit, Ladyjustice will carry on….
Connecticut experienced a “wakeup call” of the greatest proportion when this horrific crime occurred on July 23, 2007. All assumptions about where “crimes like that” occur (and certainly not Cheshire) were shaken to the core. This crime was the impetus for landmark judicial legislation, rallied people as never before to implement change in attitudes, to be vigilant about personal safety, to buy and install home alarm systems; to reconfigure our Parole & Pardons board, to create a system of sharing vital prisoner histories at all levels of the criminal justice system; to revamp the process for halfway house placements, to “get to know your neighbors” in the form of kindness and neighborhood watches; to initiate numerous scholarships and charitable organizations in the aftermath for the benefit of others who have aspirations “just like the Petit women”; attempts to keep (and eliminate) the death penalty in Connecticut; to create and carry out a legacy for their passions and… for Bill Petit to have as many reasons as possible to carry on without them. (As of today, due to the current economic times, some of these milestones are still a work in progress but alive none the less).
And now, nearly four years later, the legacy of this family lives on through the constant efforts of Bill Petit his parents, siblings, his 95 year old grandmother and extended family and friends.
It is a strange kind of purgatory awaiting a trial… as if the trial itself was supposed to take away the past sins of the defendant(s).
(Ladyjustice’s purgatory, awaiting trial for her father’s homicide spanned six years.) It is this “suspended animation” that wears you down so that by the time the trial is about to commence, you are in a state of mind that perpetuates the wounds and adds further insult to injury.
This is yet another trying time for the Petit family, currently awaiting the second trial to begin in September for the second defendant, whose name doesn’t deserve the ink, and raises the hairs on everyone’s neck in Connecticut and beyond…
In 2009, this blogger was in “full court press mode” as the Chairperson assigned to coordinate a huge state agency event held at our State Capitol known as “the BESB Awards and National Observation of White Can Safety Day.” This event brings together a selected groups of visually impaired or legally blind students and blind adults whose accomplishments over time has served to go above and beyond” in their fields of endeavor or talents in ten categories.
It is the “Emmy Awards” for the blind community in Connecticut, if you will. AND, make no mistake…. This is not a demonstration that they can merely perform with their peers while experiencing blindness (and other disabilities). RATHER, particularly with students, they not only keep up, but often far exceed their sighted peer and are multi-talented in academic and the arts or sports, community affairs, despite their blindness. No Pity Party Here – Never, Unacceptable! Most sighted people have no idea what blind individuals and today’s technology can do….
This event involves coordination of a roster of candidates, nominating committee, contact and invitations with nominees, families, State legislators, municipal officials, the Governor’s office, catering, facilities management, press releases, TV coverage, official proclamations, the crafting of a programming script, correspondence, individual bios for nominees, organizing the flow, seating arrangements, entertainment, etc.; etc., AND selection of an appropriate Master of Ceremonies.
How to get a speaker pro bono, who understands the issues of diabetes and blindness, is committed to the cause and can present in a way that engages the participants??
Ladyjustice wrote a personal letter to Dr. Petit explaining her journey with the medical world, personal disability, personal homicide and our agency’s mission and request for a Master of Ceremonies. ‘A long shot at best, she thought. (Although this blogger’s previous efforts had nearly gotten Mary Tyler Moore twice for this event!) However, this blogger had more in common with Dr. P. versus MTM.
Enter Dr. William Petit, Jr…. He could not have been more gracious and apologized for the letter getting lost in the sea of mail. Long story short, he came to our agency, toured, met with staff, including staff that happens to have MS, and was available for consultations prior to the event.
Following Ladyjustice’s immense pleasure of introduction, Dr. Petit gave a thorough and thoughtful introduction “prior to his duties”, discussing his work with diabetes research and treatment, his hopes for the future and even read an inspirational narrative in French!
His MC style was classy, engaging and funny! He was everything Ladyjustice had hoped for! He indeed was the man for the job! And…“the cherry on top of the sundae” was to have Ladyjustice’s mother in attendance, beaming proudly and asking to meet the esteemed Master of Ceremonies! How perfect! He was now part of the BESB Family.
(Post script- Soon to be part of the “New Bureau of Rehabilitation Services” as of July 1st. So long BESB, a stand alone agency since 1893!)
Fast forward to June 2011…. The public can read an unusual expose’ of the Petit family story in the June/July edition of Esquire Magazine. You can’t miss the magazine, which, for some unknown reason chose to include “The Survivor” article with a cover page GQ like male with a woman’s hand suggestively inserted under the man’s belt. Yikes! Ladyjustice is no prude!
However, this is not the showcase for a man of his caliber. A little class please! I guess, we do what we have to, to serve others for the greater good and let the chips fall where they may, by other tasteless individuals who “just want to sell magazines at any cost.”
The article begins with a typical event held to raise funds for his Foundation by the many friends and supporters of what was the Petit family foursome, then to a snapshot of his life currently in Plainville, followed by a the sentencing day of the first monster defendant on December 2, 2010.
It is an account that reminds this writer of a work of fiction, describing glimpses, breathing, gestures, detailed descriptions of clothing, a visceral attempt to “get into his skin.” Ladyjustice is not amused. This is no fairytale. Other passages paint a picture of the humanity of what were his former family- stories of his children.
The torture of being physically bound, seriously wounded and “not knowing, only guessing” what’s going on in the house is portrayed though Dr. Petit’s internal thoughts, back to courtroom testimony, the morning of the Memorial service (Something greater than a private service but less than a full blown extravaganza trying to accommodate the grieving public as well) with a man just out of the hospital trying to hold on.
The story traverses to the events of the day prior to the murders-the family kind of activities followed by the meeting and courtship days with his wife and lessons he tried to teach his children. The final pages treat the reader to an insightful account growing up in a working class neighborhood as seen through William Petit, Sr. in a family with several siblings, and Bill described as naturally being a self-starter, a survivor by nature (well worth the read!) 
Could such a normal boyhood existence have prepared this man for his future? Not a chance…. To be fair, Ladyjustice should ask could anyone write an account that sufficiently covers the landscape of this story?
It’s doubtful… Perhaps one or two authors, like Diane Fanning, but very few for sure!
“What’s if’s” are in the account, those tapes that play over and over in our heads, “had we or others only done things differently”,we might have our family member back in the world of the living. Ladyjustice advise, don’t do the “what ifs,” as we have enough self-torture in our lives…. Do the positive things that our family members would have done if they were here now.
***And please donate to the Petit Family Foundation. You will find no better reasons to give your time and dollars!
Link: http://www.petitfamilyfoundation.org/

A Place in History for the Gay Community
Posted by Administrator in California, Justice, Legislation, LGBT, Support, Uncategorized on May 28, 2011
(Should Gay History be included in the California School Curriculum and Textbooks?)
Preface:
G- Genovese, Catherine Susan (Kitty) (July 7, 1935-March 13, 1964), was a New York City woman who was stabbed to death near her home in the Kew Gardens section of Queens, New York on March 13, 1964. Genovese shared her Kew Gardens, Queens, apartment with her lover, Mary Ann Zielonko
The circumstances of her murder and the lack of reaction of numerous neighbors became a rallying call for apathy of crime when it was reported that 38 people witnessed her murder and didn’t contact the police. This case became known in psychological circles as the “bystander or Genovese syndrome.”
A -Jane Addams (September 6, 1860 – May 21, 1935) was the first American woman to be awarded the Nobel Peace Prize. In a long, complex career, she was a pioneer settlement worker, founder of Hull House in Chicago, public philosopher (the first American woman in that role), sociologist, author, and leader in woman suffrage and world peace.
Y-Ken Yeager is an American politician from California, 2000-2006 serving on the Santa Clara County Board of Supervisors, representing District 4. Yeager is openly gay, and the first openly gay elected official in San Jose. His long-time partner is Michael Haberecht.
H- Harvey Milk - American politician for the San Francisco Board of Supervisors and gay rights activist. prior to his murder committed by Dan White. “What set Harvey apart from you or I was that he was a visionary. He imagined a righteous world inside his head and then he set about to create it for real, for all of us.” Milk was posthumously awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2009.
I-William M. Inge May 3, 1913 – June 10, 1973) was an American playwright and novelist, whose works typically feature solitary protagonists encumbered with strained sexual relations. In the early 1950s, he had a string of memorable Broadway productions, and one of these, Picnic, earned him a Pulitzer Prize. With his portraits of small-town life and settings rooted in the American heartland, Inge became known as the “Playwright of the Midwest”.
S- (1) (The)Society for Human Rights in Chicagobecomes the country’s earliest known gay rights organization in 1924;
(2) 1969 TheStonewall riots transform the gay rights movement from one limited to a small number of activists into a widespread protest for equal rights and acceptance. Patrons of a gay bar in New York’s Greenwich Village, the Stonewall Inn, fight back during a police raid on June 27, sparking three days of riots.
T- (Lucie Blue) Tremblay (Born 1958 in Montreal) is a Canadian folk singer-songwriter, who performs music with lesbian themes. She writes and performs material in both English and French. Her debut album, released in 1986 by Olivia Records, was voted Top Ten Album of the Year by the Boston Globe.[1]
O- Olivia Records…..Olivia Cruises Founder and president, Judy Dlugacz, conceived and created Olivia Records in 1975 featuring women’s musical artists, producing 40 albums and sold over a million records. This was the genesis of Women’s Music as a genre.
Olivia Cruises started small in 1990 with a single voyage on a tiny ship. But 20 years later, the lesbian cruise company Olivia has become a major force in the industry, regularly chartering vessels that hold 2,000 passengers or more for all-lesbian vacations at sea. The San Francisco-based company, which has branched out into land vacations as well, has an average of 14 trips in the works, as of 2010.
R- (1) Jerome Robbins (October 11, 1918 – July 29, 1998) was an American theater producer, director, and choreographer known primarily for Broadway Theater and Ballet/Dance, but who also occasionally directed films and directed/produced for television. Robbins was a five time Tony Award winner and a recipient of the Kennedy Center Honors. He also received two Academy Awards, including the 1961 Academy Award for Best Director with Robert Wise for West Side Story. A documentary about his life and work, Something to Dance About, featuring excerpts from his journals, archival performance and rehearsal footage and interviews with Robbins and his colleagues, premiered in PBS in 2009.
(2)Robert Reed-Shakespearean trained actor, appeared in “The Defenders” series and the popular and iconic TV series “The Brady Bunch.” Reed was the patriarchal figure to his blended family of six children. Although he was frequently unhappy with the scripts, he continued in his role. Reed had been married and had a daughter, but felt it necessary to be in the closet to his family and audience for the majority of his career. Internet sources indicate that Reed died on May 12, 1992, at his home in South Pasadena, California, after a six month battle with colon cancer and lymphoma and was previously HIV positive. The acting community and his Brady Bunch family was a supportive surrogate family.
Y-Kenji Yoshino is a legal scholar and the Chief Justice Earl Warren Professor of Constitutional Law at New York University School of Law. Formerly, he was a Professor of Law at Yale Law School. His work involves Constitutional law, anti-discrimination law, civil and human rights, as well as law and literature, and Japanese law and society.. Major areas of interest include social dynamics, conformity and assimilation, as well as queer (LGBT) and personal liberty issues. He has been a co-plaintiff in cases related to his specialties. A Japanese American, and openly gay man, Yoshino also writes poetry for personal enjoyment.
Feature Story:
As of April 2011, the California State Senate approved landmark legislation to include gay history as required teaching in public schools. This bill is awaiting approval from the Democratically controlled Assembly and Governor Jerry Brown.
As reported in an AP article for the San Diego Union Tribune, the language further requires that the California Board of Education to adopt textbooks and teaching materials on the contribution and roles of sexual minorities by the 2013-2014 school year.
The proposed legislation would also prohibit “the adoption of any materials that reflect adversely on the gay community or particular religions.” (Lady Justice asks how religion gets placed in this context. The gay community practices all types of religions. Is this an garbage pail attempt to include everything we can think of in one bill? And how does one balance teaching about homosexuality and religions which may prohibit gay rights?)
Detractors state that they are already overburdened with mandates, teacher layoffs and teaching for mastery tests.
Bill sponsor, San Francisco’s openly gay Democratic Senator, Mark Leno states, “We are conspicuous in our absence…. Should we delete the inclusion of all the groups that are currently in the statute? Why is that okay and not LGBT? That is discriminatory.”
Earlier, groups who successfully lobbied to ban gay marriage in California also dislike children’s books portraying alternate types of relationships such as “Tango Makes Three,” a picture book about two male penguins raising an orphan penguin. This book again topped the American Library Association’s ‘most challenged books.” ( Ladjustice – Oh please… the underlying concepts of compassion, creating a safe and loving family for those who are neglected is the message here…)
The scariest part in the opinion of this blogger is that the bill leaves the hard work of deciding what material to include to what grades and ages…. to individual school districts.
Therefore, no consistency, and perhaps a cursory treatment with little thought, “just to cover them” is a real risk in the opinion of this blogger. To this point, Republican Senator Doug La Malfa asks, “Are we supposed to remove Winston Churchill from the curriculum to get this type of curriculum in?”
California currently mandates schools to teach history regarding the following ethnic, cultural and minority groups: Women, Mexican-Americans, African Americans, Asian Americans, European Americans, Entrepreneurs, Labor and Native American Indians. (‘Kudos to California for their inclusivity!)
When all is said and done…. It comes down to what principals and teachers deem important enough to teach in the classroom and how much time they have….
The events at the Stonewall Inn in 1969 are considered a defining “Rosa Parks” moment in gay history. To lean more, please view the following brand new PBS documentary film:
“An American Experience” will be premiering the documentary film, Stonewall Uprising in April 2011. Award-winning filmmakers Kate Davis and David Heilbroner tell the story of the impromptu battle between bar patrons and police on June 28, 1969 following yet another raid of the Mafia-owned Stonewall Inn on Christopher Street in New York’s Greenwich Village. Most LGBT historians as the pivotal moments described by the Village Voice—in the history of gay liberation..
And… One More Thing…. For an interesting account of Gay History portrayed in a timeline, go to:
The American Gay Rights Movement: A Timeline — Infoplease.com http://www.infoplease.com/ipa/A0761909.html#ixzz1Nfjdy0lm
Ladyjustices’ Personal Hall of Heroes
Posted by Administrator in Support, Upward Bound on April 14, 2011
A Blogger’s Survey- Agree or Disagree?

Daniel Hernandez, Jr.
Student Intern of Congresswoman Gabrielle Giffords
Who Saved Gabby’s Life

Dr. William Petit, Jr.
Friend, Renowned Physician
Homicide Survivor, Cheshire Home Invasion.

Geraldine Ferraro
Champion of Women’s Rights and the first woman to run for Vice President of the U.S.
I still have the original Time Magazine…

UConn Women Huskies… Need I say more?
A long time fan … when tickets cost only $5.00 per game

Helen Mirren
Ladyjustice’s Favorite Actress) and Series – “Prime Suspect”
Immensely Talented, Versatile, Classy and Beautiful!

Upward Bound Students of Imperial Valley College, Imperial, California (on the Mexican Border)
First time College Students succeed despite the poorest economic conditions in the U.S.!

Mary Travers of Peter, Paul & Mary
Ladyjustice received an endorsement for the “Straight for Equality” PFLAG Project from Mary, a Connecticut Resident. LJ was invited to her final concert in Hartford with her best friend Barbara and was invited backstage to meet her family. Despite her struggle with leukemia, she performed with great voice that night with her compadres! Her husband Ethan was
So wonderful … and so in love with her!
Can you, the readers, name three more heroes, Ladyjustice might include in this list (Male or Female)?
If you have been paying attention …and reading my blog for the past six months, you may have some great entries.
In fact, you may win…. my admiration!
Tales of the City “How to Make San Diego A Better Place”
Posted by Administrator in Employment on March 17, 2011
Bright, single woman seeking to trade in her east coast situation for sunny San Diego Career…
Will trade 80 inches of snow for a few grains of beach sand;
This Master’s level professional promises to accomplish much while maintaining a positive attitude including:
1) Solving the immigration problem by extraditing all rich tax evaders from La Jolla and Hollywood to Mexico to work on border patrol, in exchange for hard worker soon- to- be-citizens;
2) ‘Decrease State deficit by 50% as per Executive Order of Governor Jerry Brown. Mandatory weekly Linda Ronstadt concerts $10.00 per person;
3) Distribute excess money from overpaid Bell California municipal officials by establishing “Bank of Bell- San Diego”;
4) Eliminate unemployment and homelessness by mandating every military officer “Take a Vet to Work Day” 365 days per year….
But seriously…. Extensive experience in crime victim advocacy, professional and creative writing, state government service, Clinical Healthcare/Rehabilitation therapy; Social-Human Services/Case Management, Eldercare and Disability Ombudsman, Event Planning, etc.
Serious employers are welcome to inquire to Ladyjustice via Administrator!
Email: contact@imaginepublicity.com
Phone: 843.808.0859
Disgruntled Workers: “Going Postal” and Other Human Tragedies from Connecticut to California….
Posted by Administrator in Survivors of Homicide, Violent Crime on March 14, 2011
Disgruntled Workers: “Going Postal” and Other Human Tragedies from Connecticut to California….
The human toll and emotional scars are immeasurable….
Question by this author… What does it mean to be a third less dead???
Let’s take a closer look …
A standard in the Human Resources industry for Workplace Violence presentations includes the showing or partial showing of a training film entitled “Murder 9 to 5: Violence in the Workplace, a 1994 HBO Production.
1) The 1986 story of postal worker and killer Patrick Sherrill “Crazy Pat” who committed homicide on 14 workers in Edmond, Oklahoma prior to his suicide. Dr. Park Diez, a forensic psychiatrist and FBI consultant also appeared in the film. Much has been written about this event.
2) August 10, 1989, Escondido California mailman, John Merlin Taylor shot his wife to death, then drove to a nearby post office in Escondido and opened fire on fellow employees, killing two and wounding a third before putting the gun to his head and shooting himself. U.S. Postal Service spokesman Ken Boyd said Taylor had been a letter carrier for 25 years and was nearing retirement.
The rampage, which began at 7:30 a.m. on East Valley Parkway on the eastern edge of the northern San Diego County city, left postal workers scrambling for safety. When the gunfire subsided, survivors were seen exchanging hugs and crying quietly.
“He fired well over a dozen rounds, and there are expended cases all over the floor there,” Escondido Police Lt. Earl Callander said.
Police said they knew of no motive for the shootings and believed that the victims were shot randomly, but co-workers said Taylor had succumbed to increasing pressure at work.
Author’s note: Perhaps this was really a domestic violence issue that spilled over into the workplace……
3) Ridgeway, New Jersey, 1991 was the date and location of the next in a series of postal homicides by clerk Joseph Harris.
October 10th, 2 am, Harris entered the rear of the Ridgewood post office where he shot and killed two mail handlers, Joseph Vander Pauw and Donald Mc Naught. Barricading himself in the basement, he shot at truck driver Marcello Collado who had become suspicious when he arrived at the back dock and found nobody to help him unload his truck.
Joseph Harris was subsequently convicted of first degree murder and sentenced to death. He died on death row in 1996.
A former postal clerk, 31, furious that he had been dismissed from his job, for “getting into altercations with postal customers on his route,” walked into a regional postal center opened fire with a sawed-off .22-caliber rifle, killing three workers and wounding six, before fatally wounding himself.
Three other workers were injured while trying to escape by jumping out windows of the two-story building during the shooting spree, which the police estimated lasted five or six minutes.
“Double Trouble” on May 6, 1993
Firty-five year old Larry Jaison, a postal mechanic with 24 years of service in Dearborn Michigan shot and killed another postal mechanic and wounded a supervisor and administrative clerk prior to killing himself. Reportedly the victims were targeted. This post office had the reputation as having “an authoritarian structure.”
Dana Point, California- May 6, 1993
A mere four hours later…. fired postal employee Mark Richard Hilburn killed his mother and her dog. And then… he proceeded to the Dana Point post office and fatally shot letter carrier Charles Barbagallo and injured clerk Peter Gates. Hilburn continued his mass murdering rampage wounding three others prior to being captured 36 hours later.
Hartford , CT Postal Worker Wounds Three Cops with Semi-automatic Rifle- September 4, 1998
The City of Industry, California, July 10, 1995
And, finally……. the tragic case of Jennifer Sanmarco, Goleta, California, January 30, 2006
“No one is innocent and everyone is a victim when any agency is allowed to police themselves”
Collection of Selected Crime Movie Reviews Part II
Posted by Administrator in Movie Reviews on February 19, 2011

Lady Justice Crime Movie Reviews Part II
The Staircase
Topic: Homicide
You rated this movie: 5.0
This docu-drama was created by French filmmaker Jean-Xavier de Lestrade depicting the real lives and death, gripping courtroom scenes and family gatherings following the aftermath of chronicling the case of author Michael Peterson, who was convicted in 2003 for the murder of his second wife wife, Kathleen.
Yes….. There are far too many Petersen murderers running about —Scott, Michael and Drew(allegedly).
However, the portrayal of this real life occurrence is done over a period of several months from several points of view and condensed into six hours of viewing. It is an intimate, unprecedented view of family relationships, raw emotion, secrets, legal strategies, expert consultations, courtroom drama and even international intrigue tying a previous “accidental killing” of the same type to this defendant. It engages the viewer from the start with its storytelling abilities, cast of characters, timeline and musical offerings.
I purchased this film and have viewed it about three times. With each viewing I gather more insight into their version of events. I am discomforted with the findings of the two renowned forensic experts from Connecticut. However, as a biased homicide survivor, for all of its good qualities, I think it “bends over backwards” to represent Michael Peterson as the perfect husband with the perfect marriage. In reality, his life and marriage was far from it… was far from it. This film omits physical evidence that offers further proof of his guilt.
This family did survive the adopted, blended, divorced, inter-continental forces that would go against the making of a strong, but non-traditional family. The viewer does have empathy for many of those involved. In the beginning and in the end of the film, Michael Peterson comes off as a self-absorbed pathetic figure.
Whose Life Is It Anyway
Topics: Assisted Suicide; Disability/Quality of Life
You rated this movie: 5.0
This 1981 film discusses the most important ethical issue- that of quality of life versus death. However, it is portrayed with class, comedic elements and a group of the most talented actors ever.
Richard Dreyfess, Christine Lahti and John Casssavetes, along with a wonderful supporting cast, present the story of a man’s dignity and intellect as more important than the medical credo of “Thou Shall Preserve Life at all costs.”
Indeed, it defines what life truly is… What is quality of life? Be sure to view the audio commentary first for insight. I must say the pairing of the Director and Musical Composer, Arthur Rubinstein was slow to say the least, as the latter is certainly not an articulate speaker, and far too technical in his description of the musical selections.
However, you realize that this film was ahead of its time, with many layers of relationships and touching scenes.
Out of the Ashes
Topics: Mass Murder; Racism
You rated this movie: 5.0
Christine Lahti is absolutely magnificent in her skillful portrayal of Gisella Perl, courageous and skilled Jewish MD sent to the German prison camps. The story focuses on her family initially and weaves back and forth from present to past recollections. Gisella is forced to justify her actions as a means of survival in order to obtain a license in New York.
Although she doesn’t come from poverty, she lives it and is demoralized daily. In spite of her meager existence, she manages to save hundreds of women and keep her integrity. When she finally obtains her license, she continues her work until her death in 1988.
Scenes in which she is questioned by the licensing board over three days are especially riveting, as are scenes in which she is reunited with some former patients/prisoners. This movie should have been on the big screen! DRG
Topics: Suspected Child Abuse; Intolerance
You rated this movie: 5.0
There is no doubt that this is an excellent film in every respect. The writing is provocative and the acting talents of all the cast is first rate. Set in the backdrop of the mid 1960′s, “Doubt” allows us a bird’s eye view of Catholicism doled out by a nun who rules with discipline and an iron hand…and heart.
Enter an innocent young nun who wants nothing more than to teach history and help her students. We also see the clash between the principal and her Parish priest, who takes a protective liking to “the first negro boy”.
Secrets are revealed, suspicions run rampant and tempers flare. Compassion, or lack thereof, and intolerance are main themes. This is not a slow paced film. The depth and expanse of Meryl Streep’s characterizations is truly amazing. The ending is true to its title. You will not know what truth is and what fiction is.View this film, at least once! DRG
Rosemary & Thyme: Series 3 (3-Disc Series)
Topic: Homicide
You rated this movie: 4.0
I first became acquainted with the R & T series at my local library. Although it’s supposed to be about murder, the focus is the relationship of these two delightful women. The series is light, the interactions delightful and the European scenery just stunning!
Oh yes, and it’s highly implausible that two gardeners would “run into murder” at every assignment, just like Angela Lansbury of “Murder She Wrote.” They may imbibe a bit too much, but you would too, if you were constantly solving murders… They would be friends of mine if they were real people. This series is very enjoyable.
Crime Movies? Here’s What “Lady Justice” Thinks!
Posted by Administrator in Movie Reviews on February 4, 2011

Crime can appear to be fiction. It is portrayed so often on TV as an entertainment form that “the untouched populous” become immune to it and the line separating reality and make believe is blurred at best…
The actual occurrence of a criminal act upon a person otherwise oblivious to this reality can seem like fiction- totally unreal and dream-like when it is fact.
If crime and violence has indeed become part of the fabric of our lives, how well do moviemakers do when depicting crime on the big screen? No matter the era, there are fine examples of movies that make a statement, provoke thought and discussion, engage the viewer as well as movies that move us to tears…. or to action.
Crime is a serious matter and those of us who represent survivors and victims alike, are not so comfortable having our lives turned into an “art form”. I cringe at the thought of Murder Mysteries presented at dinner theaters “just for entertainment sake.” However, we cannot get away from it. We are powerless to stop it. Crime is a big money maker in Hollywood and elsewhere. So, I personally am resigned to its presence and am constantly looking for the best vehicles in order to educate others… versus the sensational trash that is out there too. This is my way of compensating for what our society has become.
In that spirit, here is a sampling of some of this blogger’s favorite movies representing crime in one form or another via written review by this author.
Stay tuned for more… and reach for the popcorn.
Topic – Homicide; Domestic Violence
You rated this movie: 5.0
“Rear Window” is one of my all time favorites. The acting, photography and conceptualization of the movie and its layers of relationships are the best! Imagine all of those windows tell their own complex stories among the backdrop of the 1950′s. In addition to the stellar performances of Grace Kelly and Jimmy Stewart, the humor and “every woman” personality of Thelma Ritter, the “insurance nurse” is just wonderful.
If you are too young to have enjoyed this one, Jimmy Stewart plays a traveling photographer in the trenches throughout his career that is suddenly laid up and confined to a wheelchair with a broken leg.
His girlfriend, played by the beautiful Grace Kelly, is “high society to the max.” Stewart’s character has nothing better to do but stare out the window at his neighbors all day. Inadvertently, he “puts the pieces together,” (Not unlike our own Susan Murphy Milano and her detective buddies) to solve a very unlikely and public murder. Soon others begin to believe as well… but where is the evidence???
We get the opportunity to peer into the lives of Ms. Lonely-hearts, Ms. Torso etc, as well as the arrogant murderer, Thorwald, skillfully played by Raymond Burr of Perry Mason and Ironside fame.
This one must be part of your collection!
Topic – Homicide
You rated this movie: 4.0
As a fellow homicide survivor, I was naturally very interested in this topic and how accurate the film would be to actual events known. In fact I viewed it twice. Over the years, I have known many people and families like Beth Holloway. This type of event shakes you to the core and either destroys or makes families stronger and hopefully closer.
As this movie is an overview of facts as told from a mother’s perspective, it should be viewed in this light. Given that so much is left assumed but unproven; the filmmakers did a laudable job with this piece. It is important that viewers listen to the commentary re her message and purpose in doing the film. This gives it more credibility and… perhaps, someone, somewhere, someday may come forward with information which will convict Jorhan.
A mother’s love knows no bounds. She gathers strength… and has to live with the fact that ultimately, no matter how smart academically, how much promise she had, she was another young women having fun that used bad judgment and was unprepared for a culture and environment different from her own. DRG
Topic- Hit and Run; Vehicular Homicide
You rated this movie: 5.0
As a homicide survivor from the same geographic area, this film was fascinating in its unique inclusion of the perpetrator’s view of events and how his cowardly deed impacted his life and others. I could truly relate to the grieving parent’s unrelenting torment and feeling that “the police are doing nothing.” However, to inadvertently entwine yourself with the killer of your son by picking the perpetrator’s law firm…How bizarre… The Director wondered if the grief is somehow different in a wealthy, elitist family versus those in the poor inner city. Grief is grief. However, I think that wealthy families are far more insulated and become complacent…and they are truly unprepared emotionally. The acting, scenes chosen and storyline were convincing. The viewer does need to imagine how and if final justice plays out, as the story only suggests. Ladyjustice
Topic- Sexual Abuse in the Church
You rated this movie: 4.0
“Our Fathers” is an intelligently written and acted production. Christopher Plummer, Ted Danson and others do the controversial story proud. The focus remains on the victim’s rights, their search for justice and the utter failings of the church, in particular Bernard Law, who turned a blind eye to rampant abuse over time.
It does not exploit, it tries to explain the complex forces at work. It’s amazing that the Catholic church survived this at all… Blind faith in religious leaders, political power and money do not speak well for any religion. Four stars! Ladyjustice
Topic- Thrill Kill; Mental Illness
You rated this movie: 3.0
Compulsion is a classic portrayal of too much money, too bored and no respect for human life. A weak tormented man is the puppet for the insane murder of an innocent child, what we would term ‘a thrill kill” these days. Bradford Dillman plays the insane and manipulative friend. Orson Wells is the everyman lawyer as he bravely tries to defend the lives of these twisted two. Quite a commentary on the shallow lives of those who have everything, but in reality is severely deprived morally. DRG
Masterpiece Contemporary: Collision
Topic- Multiple Vehicular Fatalities
You rated this movie: 5.0
This British movie was a very engrossing story. Although it is ultimately about solving a horrific traffic accident with multiple fatalities, it is also about the personal lives of all of the players… Oh what a tangled web we weave…
These people have secrets and that’s what makes it all the more intriguing! And…. the ending is a real shocker (i.e. the true cause of the accident). There is an adversarial relationship between the two main investigators at first. However, differences are ironed out and it turns to something else. The acting and storyline is first rate. I watched it twice! DRG
Topic- Suicide; Personal Terrorism
You rated this movie: 5.0
The original “Airport” movie is a classic, very entertaining and a heart wrenching movie. The line up of actors is excellent with seven different story lines on-going. The musical score truly enhances the action. All of the actors do a wonderful job of portraying their roles. However a couple stands out for me… Helen Hayes is superb as the stowaway. Maureen Stapleton is also stellar in her performance as the spouse of D. O. Guererro, the ne’er do well bomber. Forget the fact that smoking is no longer allowed on planes and that a family station wagon doubling as the airport manager’s car in the storm would most likely be replaced by an SUV today. It is a classic story with characters one can relate to.
Although unlikely, and not quite up to standard with the original, I also enjoyed “Airport 75″ with Karen Black as the stewardess who drives the plane to safety until a pilot can be air-dropped in. Enjoy these two films. They don’t make them any more. DRG
Topic – Domestic Violence; Kidnapping
You rated this movie: 5.0
Greetings! This film is uncomfortable to watch. It stirs emotions… The viewer sees the injustice of the situation, Betty’s naiveté and how a housewife from Michigan was totally unprepared for Iran. The controlling domestic violence is familiar but Betty is smart enough to “play the game” to ensure her safety and that of her daughter’s after her husband’s lessons on “how it’s going to be.” You root for her throughout the movie and despise what is going on. If not for a truly good Samaritan with connections, all would have been lost. Acting, photography and direction were excellent! DRG
A Woman Scorned: The Betty Broderick Story
Stalking; Homicide
You rated this movie: 4.0
Greetings! This is a four star movie in my view! The only quarrel I have with its authenticity is that Meredith Baxter is a bit too attractive. The real BB was attractively dressed and “hair styled”. However, she was overweight and not a raving beauty.
Listen to the commentary. It was meticulously researched. The movie accurately portrays both spouses as money hungry, materialistic and shallow. Stephen Collins does fine as the wheeler-dealer lawyer who is emotionally immature. However, he bends over backwards to be understanding toward his wife, even when confronted with constant harassment, stalking, destruction of property and ‘poisoning the minds” of the children. No he’s not a saint, but….
The movie builds to a point of utter disgust as his wife’s behavior becomes ever more outrageous….and her lack of responsibility and remorse simply unbelievable! Watch out friends, the real BB is up for parole in March of 2010. I wouldn’t trust her for a minute! DRG
Blue Murder: Set 4 (2-Disc Series)
Topic -British Murder Series
You rated this movie: 4.0
Caroline Quentin is wonderful as Inspector Lewis, trying to manage a rowdy group of detectives and four children as a single mother. This series has her experiencing more personal crisis with the children acting out as the ex-husband is supposedly residing in Spain. Therefore, she makes more of an effort to be less of a 24/7 cop.
She has her colleague and best buddy Richard substituting as a male role model when needed. The episodes are interesting with one subplot being the consideration of a new job. Another story has Richard going under cover in prison with a near fatal result. These stories are truly good viewing. The one minus is the strong dialect in which American audiences might miss a few lines here and there. I hope there is a Set 5 to come. DRG
Blue Murder: Set 3 (2-Disc Series)
Topic= British Murder Series
You rated this movie: 5.0
The third set of shows for Blue Murder I rate highly. Caroline Quentin & Ian Kelsey continue their playful banter throughout. The murders are engrossing stories. The second episode even includes a brief love interest for Jenine, but alas, it is not to be in the end. The home environment is still chaotic and the children are missing their father. Meanwhile, he is struggling with an infant and a post depressive wife. Instead of saying “I told you so…” Jenine has class and offers tea and sympathy. The only downside is the strong dialects. You have to press the rewind at times to catch certain phrases. I wish there were more episodes! DRG
Topic- Homicide; Homophobia
You rated this movie: 5.0
The Times of Harvey Milk- A five star rating! This is extremely well done and different than the Sean Penn movie. Interviews and film clips enhance the feeling of the time.
I learned more about the circumstances such as Dan White’s lack of reappointment may have been influenced by the mass suicide from many followers of Jim Jones; the day after Harvey’s killing was his birthday, the legal concept of diminished mental capacity vs. diminished actuality;
White’s sneaking in the window of the courthouse on the fatal day and…. how the airing of his confession backfired. As the filmmakers said, the trial could have been a movie in and of itself. Don’t miss this or the accompanying audio commentary!
Vulnerabilities: Dealing with the Pain, the Aftermath
Posted by Administrator in Disabilities on January 25, 2011
It is intriguing to me what the “residual effects” are on those who experience violent crime. Whether your case is brand new, going through the judicial process at a snail’s pace; whether you are left hanging and left wondering for years with an unsolved case; if your case has been solved…. Or if, as in my situation, you are many years down the road after “the event,” vulnerabilities pervade and often last a life time.
The circumstances of crime can be as individual and varied as a fingerprint. For every instance in which we achieve a sense of contentment, we can also find an opposing state of discomfort that serves to remind us of the past…
Dr. Elisabeth Kubler- Ross will forever be known as the pioneer who made sense of it all with her five stages of grief model, featured in her 1969 breakthrough book, “On Death & Dying: What the Dying Have to Teach Doctors, Nurses , Clergy and their Families.” Death, Denial, Isolation, Anger, Bargaining Depression and Acceptance seem to capture the rollercoaster-like stages we all felt or feel.
Today, other professionals including social workers, psychologists and grief counselors grapple with our pain. They listen to our stories, respond to the questions for which there are answers, and “patch us up” as best they can, hoping that we have the fortitude to face the future.
Cognitive therapy focuses on changing behaviors in the here and now. The techniques used, help to change behaviors and feelings. They have been categorized into “schemas” developed by Dr. Jeffrey Young. Reportedly, a schema is a “life trap” preventing us from accomplishing life goals and subsequent happiness.
Among the 18 different schemas, some include: emotional deprivation, mistrust/abuse, dependence/incompetence and self-sacrifice. Vulnerability is one of the common “life traps” defined as, “the sense that the world is a dangerous place; that disaster can happen at any time, and that you will be overwhelmed by the challenges that lie ahead.”
Somehow, vulnerability is put in a far more serious, dark, gloom and doom context rather that the vulnerability we see on TV. You know the one… “I just broke up with my boyfriend and I’m feeling vulnerable.” Perhaps those TV writers need to say heartbroken rather than vulnerable… It certainly sounds scary… “anything can happen”… “overwhelming”.
Let’s be real. We are in fact, reeling, heartbroken and feeling very vulnerable concerning the horrific acts of a deranged gunman against Congresswoman Giffords and the other fine public servants and innocent citizens who lost their lives in Tucson recently. Vulnerability to the max!
I am sickened how this event has served to invade our personal freedoms and tainted all that is good about public service and a sense of community…. Not to mention the criminal acts. Mental illness is no excuse. Don’t even try to make this political or talk about the media frenzy or civility. This was intentional murder!
However, I refuse to live a life “looking over my shoulder”, thus giving power to the perpetrator of my father’s homicide.
Vulnerability, at its most basic level, is like an open wound that never heals. It’s hard to control a small vulnerability, akin to a scratch, let’s say, from becoming a gaping wound. Personally speaking, with nearly 30 years time and a lot of therapy, my gaping wounds have healed, but not totally.
So where do we put the remaining pain and how do we deal with it afterwards? Can we as survivors of homicide or otherwise actually re-adjust to life after homicide? YES WE CAN. But….. those vulnerabilities remain… How do my vulnerabilities translate to my day to day dealings, to my very own “vulnerability schema”?
Well, if you’d really like to know, my blogger friends…..
As a lifelong single woman who just happens to have a physical disability that rarely limits me, due to my superb ability to compensate or “figure out a way,” I feel I am naturally more vulnerable as I “can’t kick an intruder where it hurts” nor can I “run for the hills” quickly. However, I can use a steel crutch as a weapon and well developed upper body strength, if need be…. (I always used to beat the grammar school boys at arm wrestling Ha!)
I can try to always live in a “safe community” (if there is such a place anymore.
As for my crime related vulnerabilities, I always record a new daily message on my answering machine including the date and a couple of details both at home and at work. I do this for two reasons. My main reason for doing so, is to alert others of a clue as to my whereabouts in case of an emergency… or if I went missing. I do this for safety… It would be awhile if they had to discover ‘something not quite right”
My family, for whatever reason, gets together on major holidays only with little communication in between… They have their own families and I do not, except for surrogate family friends. I have accepted this… The second reason for such recordings is my insatiable need for creativity and diversity. I love the creative challenge of devising a new message each and every day.
I never had the opportunity to say goodbye to my father for the final time, as he left from home one evening. Consequently, ever since then, I feel a loss, I feel scared if a family member does not say a formal goodbye at the end of the gathering. I feel cheated and a little panicky. It is one of my vulnerabilities.
My “best work buddy” frequently makes a beeline for the door at the end of the day and does not make a point of saying goodbye to me, as my cubicle is not in her exit path. I don’t like it…. It is my vulnerability showing.
I do a fair amount of driving and always wear my seatbelt, use the sign of the cross as a non- Catholic no less, and silently thank God at times for “keeping me safe” and try to be a safe and considerate driver (with occasional lapses into “road irritation versus rage.” Admittedly, I have an irrational fear of auto fatality or injury.
My father was found shot dead five times to vital organs in his van. Some say it rolled into a house with the motor running for 30 minutes… and house occupants never called the police, after he desperately tried to drive himself to a hospital.
I always lock my car – even in a familiar neighborhood or driveway.
I think this is a holdover from my graduate school days “all by myself” at Kansas State University. Who cares if my sister. Holly makes fun of my behavior…. My vulnerability about crime became more apparent after the following very real case which occurred just one town away from where I reside.
(My heart breaks for Mary Ellen Welsh, who just wanted to have coffee and a visit with her friend, Carol Larese.
(This account was reported by Hartford Courant reporter, By BILL LEUKHARDT on May 29, 2008.)
A convicted sex offender, Leslie Williams, 31 was charged with a March 30 home invasion that left a retired court worker severely wounded and her cancer-stricken friend raped and killed opted in court Wednesday not to have a probable-cause hearing on the evidence used to arrest him.
Williams, released from jail in early March after serving an eight-year term for molesting a child, is being held without bail since his arrest in Watertown on March 30. He was fleeing from police when he lost control of the stolen car, which was owned by one of the victims.
Williams told police he had spent the night sleeping in an unlocked parked car he found in a Woodhaven Drive driveway and picked Larese’s nearby home to break into when he saw Welsh park and walk in.
Court records state that Williams burst into the New Britain home of Carol Larese, 65, seconds after her friend Mary Ellen Welsh, 62, had walked in to have coffee with Larese. Williams, who was on a weekend robbery spree and had spent the night sleeping in an unlocked parked car in a nearby driveway, shot Larese in the head and assaulted then abducted Welsh, court records state.
Carol Larese, 65, told police she had just welcomed her friend Welsh into the home when Williams walked in, said he needed a car and money, and showed the women a black handgun, the newly released document says.
Larese said Williams walked behind her into a far corner of the basement and shot her in the head. Williams told police he thought he had killed her.
But Larese, still conscious, pretended to be dead and told police she could hear Williams attack her friend. Larese waited until she no longer heard anyone in the house, then ran across the street to tell a neighbor to call police. By then, Welsh, her car and Williams were gone.
Welsh’s body was found in a sand pit in the town of Bristol, CT. Welsh, a cancer patient, had been shot, court records state. Police are still seeking the gun used in the crime.
‘Sorry bloggers, it’s just my vulnerabilities surfacing about unlocked cars…. These instances alone may not seem like much, but they are enough to keep me in a “vulnerable state of vigilance” throughout the day.
Whether homicide related, disability related or relationship related, vulnerabilities, to paraphrase Carly Simon, are often, “the only thing making us feel we are alive…. ‘Guess that’s just how much it costs to survive in this world….
When all is said and done, I guess I’ll keep my vulnerabilities. They make me feel real.


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