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Lest We Forget…Being Grateful Even as Homicide Survivors

As homicide survivors, we get so caught up in our own grief in the beginning or in the cause down the road…. that we can’t see the forest for the trees.  When the victimization is new and fresh, we feel stripped of all of our reserves, questioning humanity, questioning God and life itself.  We walk in circles, try to make deals with our God or make a pact never to do this or that again, as if we could change the course of our loved one’s plight.  We were not responsible. We typically did nothing to contribute to the awful event.  And yet, it is our responsibility to fix it when others appear not to care or are seemingly incompetent.

Women in particular, are the “fix-it people,” the great organizers, and the “hold it together people” in the family line… We see women pursuing the helping professions in droves.  Some pursue corporate life and cast a distaining scowl on the glass ceiling as if to say, “I’ll show you….”  Well, LadyJustice wants to show them too…but in ways that make a real Impact and touch other’s lives differently than climbing the corporate ladder.

Women typically are nurturers and have a lot of love to give. When that nurturing is interrupted by a horrendous life event or when there is no one single “object of my affection,” the cause becomes the fiery passion.  At least that’s the way it is for this writer…

As single, unmarried survivors, we have our biological families who have their own connections.  We don’t always fit into their scenarios except around the Thanksgiving turkey.  Therefore, we create our own personal celebrations.

LadyJustice is here to tell you that it is okay to celebrate survivorship itself.  Yes, you may have overcome neglect, harassment, stalking, emotional and physical abuse, or other violence in its many forms… It is not something we wish to exploit for Hollywood tabloids, nor is it something to be hidden in the closet forever.  Hiding such things will make you physically ill over time…or turn you into a raving manic.  So, pick your poison as they say.  This writer believes it is better to come clean, however painful in the beginning. ‘For to share and educate others is a perpetual way of healing over and over through the rough patches. So, celebrate the fact that you have survived and will be on the road to a different path!  You are strong!  You will not grant power to the evil forces!  You too will smell the roses again, but in a much different way!

Given our personal landscapes and unspeakable new histories, we need to build bridges and make surrogate families. Whether we lose our own families to violence, divorce and emotional stress or being viewed as “damaged goods” for awhile, we need to build others into our new reality.   If we are at odds with the uncaring world outside and cannot shout “Honey I’m Home” daily, what does one do besides talk to the cat??

We reveal our true personalities with those who have a stake in our new lives.  We form new business and personal friendships around the fiery passions which we have acquired much to our initial dismay.   Then…. suddenly we discover that paying it forward, helping someone else even in a small way who has been through it, has a huge payoff!  We no longer see the world through rose colored glasses.  And better still, we never say, what’s in it for me? What’s in it for me is yet to be determined by others more powerful than we!

Thirdly, we must celebrate resources in this information age.  Admittedly, at times there is far too much personal information shared to the detriment of some.  But when it comes to victimology, in the past 30 years, relatively speaking, we have grown from a barren desert to a strong and sturdy oak tree with many blossoms…..

‘Truth is, when our family homicide occurred just 30 years ago there was no such animal called a support groups for homicide survivors.  If you were a widow, if your spouse had a terminal illness, if your loved one perished in an auto accident, these things were covered.  But the tragedy menu did not include those matters of escalating violence, least of all homicide.

Now we have a world of search engines and websites to address every malady possible (with a wary eye toward accuracy versus b.s.).  We have a myriad of universities sources, public broadcasting stations, “helping professional organizations “galore and internet radio just to scratch the surface.  Lest we forget, in the infamous words of Auntie Mame, “Life is a banquet, so stuff yourself!”   So…let us be grateful for resources!

Finally, composer John Bucchino tells us with the heart so eloquently in his wonderfully moving rendition of the song “Grateful” sung by Michael Feinstein. Take just 4 minutes to enhance your spiritual self and listen to this link:

Selected lyrics from above:

I’ve got a roof over my head; I’ve got a warm place to sleep….

I’ve got a heart that can love; I’ve got a mind I can think

There may be times when I lose the light and let my spirits sink….

But I can’t stay depressed

When I remember how I’m blessed

Grateful, grateful

Truly grateful; I am truly blessed and duly grateful.

In a city of strangers, I’ve got a family of friends….

I feel a hand holding my hand…  It’s not a hand you can see

But on the road to the promise land,

This hand will shepherd me through delight and despair

Holding tight and always there

Grateful, grateful

Truly grateful I am

Grateful, grateful

Truly Blessed

And duly grateful

Truly Blessed and Duly Grateful,

Donna / LadyJustice

www.donnagore.com

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A Plea to Stop Using Craig’sList in Favor of SafeList


In the aftermath of Donna Jou’s disapperance and possible murder, another example of the predatory behavior of Craig’s List  looms large…..  (See Garrett Berki story below)

Reza Jou found a solution to the lack of security  problem that contributed to the  in the form of a blog posting from abusinessman named Karim Pirani, the president and founder of SafeList.com, a website

 that requires users to submit to questions to confirm who they are before gaining access to the site’s core features.

Pirani came up with the idea not because of a personal tragedy but because he saw a market disconnect with sites like craigslist.org.

“If you see a must-have item on eBay, what do you do?” Pirani asked rhetorically. “You look up the seller’s ratings, you then can buy through PayPal, which gives you a certain amount of protection. Craigslist has no PayPal, so a transaction is like Russian roulette. People are nonchalant where they should be vigiliant.”

To become a verified user of SafeList, individuals must submit themselves to a series of questions based on their personal life history that the system pulls from a comprehensive public database. They must correctly answer these questions within 240 seconds.

In addition, failure to respond correctly will keep the person at the basic user level, and SafeList will also report any convicted felon or sexual predator that attempts to register on the website to law enforcement.

***Currently, SafeList is available only in San Diego, but other West Coast cities are expected to be added in 2011. 

About SafeList Ventures
SafeList Ventures, Inc. a privately held start-up, is working to make online classified advertising safer and more secure. The SafeList.com portal provides a “one click” ID verification and criminal background check, allowing members of its community, both individuals and merchants, to interact within a safer online marketplace. To learn more about the company, please visit its website at www.safelist.com.

 

Calling for Justice Justice for Garrett- San Diego Style 

An 18-year-old Mission Beach man was shot and killed and three 17-year-old boys were arrested Wednesday night in Paradise Hills after a Craigslist deal turned into a robbery, San Diego police said. Family and friends identified the victim as Garrett Berki, a 2010 La Jolla High School graduate who was attending Mesa College.

Three teenager charged in the shooting death of Garrett Burki stood in court during their arraignment. The judge ordered not to show their faces.

San Diego police said. Family and friends identified the victim as Garrett Berki, a 2010 La Jolla High School graduate who was attending Mesa College.

Vigil held for teen slain answering Craigslist ad

SAN DIEGO — Three San Diego teenagers accused in the death of an 18-year-old man who was robbed and shot after he responded to a Craigslist ad for a $600 computer pleaded not guilty Friday to murder and other felony charges.

Rashon Abernathy, Seandell Jones and Shaquille Jordan, all 17, also face counts of robbery and shooting into an occupied vehicle, as well as gun and gang allegations. They have been charged as adults.

If convicted, they each face a potential prison sentence of 50 years to life.

Dressed in orange Juvenile Hall-issued clothing, the three teens stood together Friday in front of a San Diego Superior Court judge to answer to the charges. One looked down at the floor as attorneys asked for appropriate bail amounts, given the seriousness of the case and available information about the boys, such as their criminal histories, if any.

Judge Joseph Brannigan ordered the teens held in lieu of $5 million bail.

Defense attorney Kevin Milmoe had asked that bail be set at $1 million each, adding that two of the boys — Abernathy and Jordan — did not have criminal records. A prosecutor asked for $2 million bail.

The teens are accused in the Wednesday night shooting of Garrett Berki of Mission Beach. Berki was a 2010 La Jolla High School graduate and was attending Mesa College.

San Diego police said Berki went with his girlfriend to Casey Street off Alta View Drive in Paradise Hills shortly before 10:30 p.m. to buy an item that was advertised for sale on the Craigslist website. Deputy District Attorney Kristian Trocha told the judge the item was a computer.

The couple met three teens who pretended to be sellers, and one of the three produced a handgun.

The robbers took cash and cellphones from the couple and drove away in a green Honda Accord. Berki and his girlfriend followed the Honda to try to get its license plate number.

Authorities said the Honda driver, identified as Jones, pulled onto Artemia Way, a cul-de-sac, and turned the car around. Berki then tried to “box in” the Honda but was unsuccessful.

As the Honda passed the couple’s car, someone inside the suspect vehicle fired a single shot, hitting Berki in the chest. The driver of the Honda kept going, jumped a curb about two blocks away and crashed at the end of Fleming Drive.

The driver and passengers got out and ran.

Officers found three suspects minutes later, hiding in backyards about a block away.

Trocha said Abernathy is believed to be the shooter. Investigators recovered a computer and an expended .45-caliber shell casing.

The prosecutor said all three defendants are members or affiliates of a southeastern San Diego gang. Only only one of them has been documented as such by police.

Mothers of two of the teens said after the hearing that they were sorry for Berki and his family but stressed that their sons did not fire the fatal shot.

Patricia Dykes said police told her that her son, Shaquille Jordan, was in the car Wednesday night when the robbery occurred.

Both she and Shearese Johnson, mother of Seandell Jones, described their sons as good students who were poised to graduate this year from local charter schools.

“I just want my son back safely with me,” Johnson said.About 100 people gathered Thursday night at a vigil for Berki at Mission Beach, including his father, mother and sister. Berki has four siblings.

dana.littlefield@uniontrib.com • (619) 293-1287 • Twitter @danalittlefield

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“There’s Something Wrong Here”… The Legend of Dr. Henry C. Lee

“I always go in with an open mind… I don’t even believe what the police tell me.  They always try to tell you a story.  I let the evidence speak for itself; otherwise, you can overlook exculpatory evidence.”

(Quote Dr. Henry C. Lee – September 2010)

Crime based TV shows and crime scene investigation dramas are so engrained into our collective psyches these days, that we accept them as reality.  But in truth, they represent a severe breach with reality, a distortion of time that is totally nonsensical.

We are well aware from listening to the real life commentaries of Susan Murphy Milano, Denny Griffin and Vito Collucci of Crime-Wire, that actual crime cases are not so neat and tidy.  Crime is not investigated one case at a time; a murder trial is not solved in an hour as portrayed on Law and Order.  Real hysterical, but remorseful defendants do not abruptly stand and confess at the end of the trial, as they did on episodes of “Perry Mason”.  (Ahhh…. childhood memories.  Even then I was fascinated by the motivations of crime).  And, heaven help us, DNA samples are very, very seldom sent for immediate processing after the request rolls off a police officer’s lips…..

So, why do we expect such unrealistic standards in real life?  Some may say, TV and movie land has brainwashed us and heightened our expectations beyond all reasonableness.  My theory is that it has something to do with the rapid growth in forensic science and technology combined with the lengthy examination and processing time required for all such tests.  These realities, can never match with the relatively limited attention spans of the average viewer.

Therefore the entertainment industry is compelled to speed it up, keep it exciting, “Presto Chango”- here are your results on a silver platter.  The TV audience barely has enough time to go into the kitchen and get a snack before the DNA results are ready! Who cares if a few corners are cut in the name of flash and gimmicks – It’s TV.  All of the survivors of crime care, as well as the crime victims to be – that’s who!  False expectations are dangerous!

Who is there to dispel the myths of crime as entertainment?  Enter, center stage, the person, the legend of Dr. Henry C. Lee, Criminologist.  With his seemingly unassuming demeanor and his no-nonsense way of going about his work, he is the poster boy for crime busting, public safety and forensic science.  He is certainly a Connecticut celebrity and a world renowned expert.

Dr. Lee was born in China (the same day as the assassination date of JFK), in 1938 and grew up in Taiwan, beginning a career as a police officer and achieving the role of Captain before travelling to the U.S; where he earned a B.S. degree in Forensic Science in 1972 and a Ph.D. in biochemistry from NYU.   Dr. Lee is Chief Emeritus of the Connecticut State Police Forensic Science Laboratory.

He is fond of telling the story of his childhood aspirations by saying,

“I wanted to be a basketball star.  I went to talk to my coach and he said, ‘You grow two feet and then come see me.’  I realized it was an impossible dream.”

Over the years, he has authored hundreds of articles, 25 textbooks and a compilation of real crime cases using crime scene analysis, DNA analysis, fingerprinting methods etc.  Dr. Lee is perhaps the world’s most famous expert in blood spatter pattern and analysis.

His repertoire of high profile cases are household names including the notorious “Wood Chipper murder” of Hellie Crafts in Connecticut, Jon Benet Ramsey, Phil Spector, OJ Simpson, Scott Peterson, Elizabeth Smart, Michael Peterson  and the re-investigation of President John F. Kennedy to name only a handful.

This writer has had the pleasure of hearing Dr. Lee lecture at a number of crime victim conferences.  He is modest when speaking of his exhaustive achievements, possesses a good sense of humor and never fails to be thought provoking.  His standard refrain when introducing a case,   articulated in his heavy Taiwanese dialect typically is “Some sing wrong here”   for “Something’s wrong here.”  (No disrespect meant whatsoever…you have to listen carefully, that’s all). Dr. Lee skillfully guides the listener about the crime scene, the basic principles of forensics and evidence gathering as well as the overall puzzle presented.  You instinctively know that he will present many more questions than answers…..  Very rarely is a case a “slam dunk.”  The evidence may point in a particular direction or hypothesis or may prove conclusively that “no one else could have done it….”  Or, more likely not provide enough evidence and remain unsolved for extended periods …even years.

With 40 years of experience and offering assistance to law enforcement with 6,000 cases to date, Dr. Lee has developed his own style of teaching.  He doesn’t hesitate to offer “teaching moments” and simulates elements of the crime.  Whether using red ink or ketchup, Dr. Lee gets into his work!

(A good example of this is featured in the six hour docu-drama “The Staircase,” featuring the Michael Peterson case.)

Dr. Lee has also dabbled in non-fiction crime books.  One that has gotten much publicity was with a co-author Dr. Jerry Labriola, a professor of Medicine at the University of Connecticut.  This book is entitled, “Famous Crimes Revisited: From Sacco-Vanzetti to O. J. Simpson.”  Dr. Labriola creates the fictional character of “Sam Constant, ”a travelling companion who expresses the sentiment of the time, while Dr. Lee intersperses modern-day comments (in bold print) using the latest scientific knowledge.  This is a unique concept for sure, but a confusing read and not much actual participation from Dr. Lee.  Critics have been luke-warm on this offering.

Book review aside, it may be that Dr. Henry Lee, at 73, still has too many important things on his plate to indulge in such pursuits.  In a local article September, 2010, he stated, “I’ve retired four times and still work a 16 hour day.  I have the energy of a 20 year old.”

It is this drive and workaholic nature that has launched a pre-eminent mind to ever increasing heights.  Dr. Lee joined the faculty of the University of New Haven in 1975.  UNH retains the reputation as one of the best, leading the pack in criminal justice and forensic academic programs.

The 14 million dollar Henry C. Lee Institute opened on October 15, 2010 and specializes in interdisciplinary research, training, testing case consulting and education in the field of forensic science.  A first hand account that appeared in a recent Hartford Courant article described the personal experience as follows:

First you touch a handprint on a wall that launches a video of Lee explaining that your fingerprints will now be checked with a database. Then the police sirens wail and you hear officers barking orders over a scanner.

On your left is a virtual crime scene laboratory where images and pertinent evidence from Connecticut’s notorious “wood-chipper” murder case are projected on the walls. Farther in are exhibits showing how various types of light reveal bloodstains on a screwdriver; a chance to match bullets; and a look at the differences between male and female skeletal remains.

Around a corner is a room where a body —- a dummy —- lies in a recliner, apparently strangled, with evidence marked by numbers around the room; a bottle of beer to his left, a powder that looks like cocaine on a coffee table, a bureau with clothes spilling out.

There are high-tech classrooms and advanced technologies for research and for consultations with police.

“The case consultation takes advantage of Dr. Lee’s expertise and his ability to see things when no one else can, and the expertise of others members of the department,” said grant coordinator, Elaine Pagliaro. She said the institute won’t duplicate services in the community, but will enhance services, in some cases by providing technology that isn’t readily available.

For example, she said, the institute will be buying an infrared camera to examine human remains. “You wouldn’t use an infrared camera a lot and it’s a relatively expensive piece of equipment,” she said.

The institute also has a cutting edge forensic crisis command center where UNH experts can connect by satellite with police and other governmental agencies to examine evidence that is beamed to them — thus providing help as if they were physically at the crime scene.

Tim Palmbach, executive director of the institute, said the goal is also to show the public that forensic science “is not necessarily what they’ve come to know and believe after watching ‘CSI.’ “

The missions of the institute, which officially opened its new building last week, include educating the public and students and training police, lawyers and investigators in the latest forensic practices.

For more information about the consulting services of The Henry C. Lee Institute of Forensic Science, please call (203) 932-7460, or contact us through our web site.
HC Lee Institute • University of New Haven • 300 Boston Post Rd • West Haven, CT 06516 • (203) 932-7460


 

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